I have been hesitant to follow the Crush meme. Things are going good and bad for me lately and the end result is more volatile than I like. I can see where this Crush thing could hurt if people use it or don’t use it. But slowly I am willing to admit it could be a good thing instead. So, here I am, closing my eyes and putting it out there and letting whatever happen.
well
I totally understand the hesitancy, cause, well, I suddenly was hesitant and weirded out all over again over thinking back to like the fifth or sixth time I met you and you’re wearing something cool, and I’m thinking, “she rocks, whoa, there’s that little crush vibe I get, which is probably all one sided and I’m just gonna ignore it cause it’s the right thing to do for me and where I’m at”
That may sound odd, really, really odd. However, I’m male, and probably far from average (not that it’s always in the right direction on that old bell curve depending on stat).
Now, I don’t crush on all females, I generally have to get to know them, and it’s sort of a milestone marker for me with my female friends. Does that diminish the feelings? I hope not, it generally means you’re both mentally and physically attractive and I’m comfortable around you. Does it mean anything romantic? No, not really, but it does lead to the occasional flirtation and chivalristic door opening…
anyway, that’s what your post brought to my mind, now, I guess I should go click the counter
Re: well
Thank you. You made me fell all warm and pleased.
Very well articulated. It doesn’t sound really odd, it sounds very familiar. And I would have to say ditto because I feel the same way about you. That is why I always tried to collect a hug from you. Sometimes it felt appropriate other times it felt awkward so I would let it slip by. But seeing you brought a smile to my face.
The nice thing about crushes like this is that it doesn’t mean anything romantic because it isn’t right for some reason or another but it does bring joy when in the other person’s presence.
By the way, I love your bunny icon.